Recognizing the need for legal intervention is a difficult but courageous step toward reclaiming your peace of mind. In California, a Domestic Violence Restraining Order (DVTRO) is a powerful tool designed to protect individuals from abuse or the threat of abuse by someone with whom they have a close relationship.
4 Signs You May Need a Restraining Order
Persistent Harassment or Stalking Behaviors
Harassment often manifests as a pattern of behavior intended to annoy, alarm, or cause substantial emotional distress. This includes receiving an excessive volume of unwanted text messages, phone calls, or emails, even after you have asked the individual to stop. If you find that someone is following you, showing up uninvited to your workplace, or monitoring your movements through GPS or social media, these are significant red flags that your privacy and safety are being compromised.
Threats of Physical Harm or Violence
You do not have to wait for physical contact to occur before seeking a restraining order. Under California law, "abuse" includes "reasonable apprehension of imminent serious bodily injury." If an individual has made verbal or written threats to hurt you, your children, or even your pets, the court views this as a basis for protection. Threats are often used as a mechanism of control, and a DVTRO can provide the legal barrier necessary to stop the escalation of violence.
Acts of Physical Violence or Reckless Endangerment
Any instance of physical force—including pushing, hitting, kicking, or preventing you from moving freely—is a clear sign that legal intervention is required. Even a single isolated incident of physical battery is sufficient grounds to file for a restraining order. These orders can mandate that the restrained person stay a specific distance away from your home, vehicle, and place of employment, providing you with a legal "safe zone."
Destruction of Personal Property or Financial Control
Abuse often extends to "disturbing the peace" of the other party, which can include destroying personal belongings, smashing cell phones, or kicking in doors. Additionally, if an individual is using coercive control to isolate you or withhold financial resources as a means of intimidation, the court may intervene.
A restraining order can address these behaviors and, in some cases, include temporary orders regarding the use of property or payment of certain debts.
Contact Sierra Family Law for Compassionate Legal Support
At Sierra Family Law, Salina Sierra, ESQ, provides the dedicated, one-on-one representation you need to secure a Domestic Violence Restraining Order. We understand the urgency and sensitivity of these matters and are committed to helping you find the safety you deserve. Contact our Sacramento office today to discuss your situation in a confidential and professional environment.